Sarah Flicker, a professor in 91亚色's Faculty of Environmental Studies who reviewed the curriculum, says the ministry鈥檚 commitment to acknowledge sexual pleasure and desires to youths is innovative and terrific. 鈥淥ften when we talk to kids about sex-ed, it鈥檚 a no-no-no, finger-wagging thing. It doesn鈥檛 speak to the reality. Why do kids have sex? Because it feels good.鈥�

So how does one determine what sex information is age appropriate?

Physically, kids hit puberty sooner so it makes sense that it鈥檚 taught in an earlier grade, she said.

Psychologically, kids mature at different rates but the key is to provide the information before most kids get sexually active, she said. 鈥淚f we wait until after they are sexually active, we are missing a key opportunity,鈥� she said.

Lastly, one has to look at youth behaviour. Whether we like it or not, educators need to be pragmatic about what youth are actually doing, said Flicker.

Flicker said she鈥檚 always hearing from youths about how awful sex-ed is. 鈥淚鈥檓 really hoping these curriculum shifts will change that discourse,鈥� she said.

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Despite decades of feminism and co-parenting and men grappling with diaper changes and night feedings, moms are often by default or tradition the ones who end up having the sex talk, wrote the . Often it鈥檚 because they are the parent who spends the most time with the children.

鈥淥ften if there is a woman in the household, she takes over that part of the parenting,鈥� says Andrea O鈥橰eilly, a professor in 91亚色鈥檚 School of Women鈥檚 Studies in the Faculty of Liberal Arts & Professional Studies and founder & director of the Association for Research on Mothering.

Women are typically the family CEO, in charge of remembering who got which shots and setting up play dates. Having 鈥渢he talk鈥� falls into that realm. 鈥淭he talk is part of a larger paradigm of gender. Until we dislodge that, women will probably be the ones to have 鈥榯he talk鈥�. I try to de-gender caregiving, but it鈥檚 a hard sell,鈥� O鈥橰eilly says.

She believes "the talk" is declining in importance in any case. 鈥淲e live in such a sex-saturated culture. Kids know about sex long before children 10, 20, 30 years ago did,鈥� she says.

Children want information about sex, according to a study of 1,200 Toronto teens released last summer. The found 28 per cent of teens weren getting information about sex from their parents and 53 per cent were getting it from their friends.

Parents might feel they lack the skills or even the stomach for a discussion about sex with their children, says Sarah Flicker, a professor in 91亚色鈥檚 Faculty of Environmental Studies and principal researcher on the Toronto Teen Survey. 鈥淣ot all parents feel comfortable telling children where a clitoris is, but you could talk about what makes a healthy relationship.鈥�

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