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91亚色 study: Work hard at making a good marriage, not changing your partner

As Canadians continue to live longer, they can expect to spend more years with their life partners, whatever old age brings, wrote The Globe and Mail May 7:

In fact, the research suggests that, while there鈥檚 no guarantee that sticking it out will lead to happiness, good marriages often get better later in life.

鈥淭hey were like honeymooners, some of them,鈥 says , a professor of social science in 91亚色鈥檚 Faculty of Liberal Arts & Professional Studies, who with her husband, Ben Schlesinger, recently studied 20 couples who had been married at least 45 years by intensively interviewing the husbands and wives separately.

What the happy couples said: Keep busy, maintain a strong social circle, invest energy in your grandkids. The couples reported working hard at their marriages, but not trying to change their partners. They had fun 鈥 鈥渢hese were not dour people,鈥 Aber-Schlesinger says. And they still made plans, even into their 90s. 鈥淭hey didn鈥檛 only look back, they also planned ahead.鈥

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